mk’s Universe
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I’m “just not that into” bullshit.
One day (what seemed like years ago and probably was), I was visiting Ms. Lindsay Lee at her Vista del Campo residence. In her room, a most peculiar book caught my eye: “He’s Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys,” written by a man, Greg Behrendt, and a woman, Liz Tuccillo. (I’m assuming more Greg than Liz). I flipped through, read a couple pages, and then promptly threw it against the wall and then into the wastebasket. (Then Lindsay came back from the bathroom, so I quickly placed the book back on her desk before she noticed any damages.) Simply put, it is a book with dating advice for women, conveying the simple message of “Hey, sometimes the guy just isn’t very much into you ladies.” I didn’t like what I had read, to say the least.
What’s right for me.
I have been thinking about my future, and there’s still so many variables. So much potential, and yet many ways it can go awry.
This is what I do know: I don’t want to try and fit myself in somewhere that doesn’t feel right to me. I don’t believe I’ll ever be happy that way. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. I only get one life so I want to enjoy it. That’s the way I’m thinking about things anyway. There have been things in life that when I encounter them, the stars align, and it feels right from the get-go. I’m constantly in search of things that give me that feeling.
